So far most stuff seems to be on track.
One thing that we haven't really decided is the transportation for that day.
Limo will probably cost more than $1000 for that day.... need to probably decide by Mid March...
One reason why stuff seems to be on track is probably because we both have agreed to a solution before going to our parents. That would save a lot of hassle and going back and forth. We need to respect their opinion but ultimately it's our wedding.
Sunday, January 27, 2008
Friday, January 25, 2008
Traditions
Being traditional on wedding is good when everyone (I mean everyone on both sides of the family) has the same cultural background. And by saying cultural background, I mean that in a very specific way. Coz even different villages in China have different customs and traditions.
I'm pretty glad that we don't have a lot to follow, becoz things will get really complicated if we need to combine both Hong Kong and Taiwan wedding traditions. Even without following those tradition strictly, I felt stressed when my aunt kept popping up some new "rules" every time we talked. But when I asked them what we HAVE to do, they always say "nothing much" which totally pisses me off.
So, Mark's side of the family is totally open to anything. Oh, and my mom too. But my aunt and dad tends to follow the basic Cantonese wedding traditions. I think the biggest problem we've faced so far was the "gift money".
In Taiwan, there's different version of what needs to be done. It depends on how specific people want to follow. Basically, the groom's side is expected to send "gift money" to the bride's side. And in return, the bride's side will either return the "gift money" or give jewelery for their daughter to keep and bring it over with her to groom's side. And the bride's side needs to buy new suits, belt and shoes,etc for the groom. (it really depends on what part of Taiwan people live in).
But in Hong Kong, the "gift money" is for the bride's family to keep. In some case when the groom's side is rich, they'll give the bride's family a new apartment or house (or the bride's side will ask for it). U know, as chinese people always say...."when it's about money, it hurts every one's feeling"
And there's different customs even for the Banquet. Let me try to explain that briefly...
In HK, the groom's side pay for the banquet. And the bride's side can request the number of table they want. Then all the "red pocket/gift money" from guest (both sides) will be given to bride's side.
In Taiwan, the main banquet is for groom's side only. Whoever pay for the wedding get the "red pocket/gift money" which usually is more than enough to cover the banquet.
I was talking to one of my friend who will be getting married in Sept. The bride is originally from HK and the groom is originally from Taiwan. They have to take into consideration the religion side of the wedding too. The groom's side is Buddhism and having a wedding in a chapel will be out of the question (even the non-religious one). And they follow a much detailed tradition then our families do. Like not allowing to wear bridal gown the 2nd time and having a very traditional invitation, etc. I do respect all the traditions that have to be followed or performed. But i'll probably go crazy if i need to do a very traditional one. Beoz i'm pretty much a person who want to be in control of her own life.
I'm pretty glad that we don't have a lot to follow, becoz things will get really complicated if we need to combine both Hong Kong and Taiwan wedding traditions. Even without following those tradition strictly, I felt stressed when my aunt kept popping up some new "rules" every time we talked. But when I asked them what we HAVE to do, they always say "nothing much" which totally pisses me off.
So, Mark's side of the family is totally open to anything. Oh, and my mom too. But my aunt and dad tends to follow the basic Cantonese wedding traditions. I think the biggest problem we've faced so far was the "gift money".
In Taiwan, there's different version of what needs to be done. It depends on how specific people want to follow. Basically, the groom's side is expected to send "gift money" to the bride's side. And in return, the bride's side will either return the "gift money" or give jewelery for their daughter to keep and bring it over with her to groom's side. And the bride's side needs to buy new suits, belt and shoes,etc for the groom. (it really depends on what part of Taiwan people live in).
But in Hong Kong, the "gift money" is for the bride's family to keep. In some case when the groom's side is rich, they'll give the bride's family a new apartment or house (or the bride's side will ask for it). U know, as chinese people always say...."when it's about money, it hurts every one's feeling"
And there's different customs even for the Banquet. Let me try to explain that briefly...
In HK, the groom's side pay for the banquet. And the bride's side can request the number of table they want. Then all the "red pocket/gift money" from guest (both sides) will be given to bride's side.
In Taiwan, the main banquet is for groom's side only. Whoever pay for the wedding get the "red pocket/gift money" which usually is more than enough to cover the banquet.
I was talking to one of my friend who will be getting married in Sept. The bride is originally from HK and the groom is originally from Taiwan. They have to take into consideration the religion side of the wedding too. The groom's side is Buddhism and having a wedding in a chapel will be out of the question (even the non-religious one). And they follow a much detailed tradition then our families do. Like not allowing to wear bridal gown the 2nd time and having a very traditional invitation, etc. I do respect all the traditions that have to be followed or performed. But i'll probably go crazy if i need to do a very traditional one. Beoz i'm pretty much a person who want to be in control of her own life.
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Buy buy buy
Well... instead of renting everything (dress and gown), I turned out buying my wedding dress which comes to around $2000cdn (with 2 veils and taxes) Thank god we were under our budget . In addition to that, my mom went to GuangZhou and bought me 2 evening gown and 1 Kua (Cantonese traditional wedding wear). So I think that left me one less thing to worry about. Hopefully they'r gonna look nice and fits me well (my mom tends to think I'm slimmer than perceived, she was suprised to know how much i weight....hahahaha. But i overheard her talking to my aunt that i need to go on diet @-@). Well, I should. But more like toning up then eating less. XD
Sunday, January 13, 2008
Wedding Reception
Wedding Reception
June 7, 2008 - TBA
SHAING GARDEN SEAFOOD RESTAURANT
June 7, 2008 - TBA
SHAING GARDEN SEAFOOD RESTAURANT
Unit 2200 - 4540 No.3 Road
Richmond, BC. V6X 4E4
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Wedding Ceremony
Wedding Ceremony
June 7, 2008 - 10:00am
THE CHAPEL AT MINORU PARK
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June 7, 2008 - 10:00am
THE CHAPEL AT MINORU PARK
6540 Gilbert Street
Richmond BC
Parking for the Chapel is in public park lot which requires paid ticket.
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1st Post from Vicky
I've been thinking about getting a blog for our wedding for a long time. And finally I feel like starting one now - 5 months before the big day. I believe no wedding preparation runs smoothy without any problems and frustrations. That's why our blog will not only contain our happy moments but also our sad and frustrated moments as a couple.
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